
We have opportunities to make others feel special, yet we fail to do so. Why?
What can make someone feel special? When you do something that they have never experienced before. Something that is a rare gift. Something that shows you understand them and want to surprise them.
For example, I shared before that I have given women many gifts of flowers in my life. It was because I admired them, and wanted to get to know them better. However I have only been given flowers once, and it made me feel incredibly special.
Why am I sharing this? I watched a YouTube video of a woman saying that she wanted to give her husband flowers before he was dead. The husband was surprised and appreciated it and I could identify with how he felt.
Now most men may not want flowers, and maybe they may think flowers are silly and tell you. However when you have made the effort to do that, it will make them feel special no matter what their stated opinion of flowers is. The fact is that you did something that was thoughtful will make them love you more.
I have to be honest that when I received flowers from my friend it was a complete surprise. I cried because I didn’t get gifts from non family members at that time, and I didn’t expect anything from her. It brought me joy, and I knew that I wanted to be able to bring that joy to others. So whenever I have the chance I have given gifts to others both men and women to make them feel special.
We have opportunities to bring kindness in many forms. Some actions and words will be remembered forever. I will never forget her.