Need to find out where your php.ini file is for WordPress hosted sites?
Thanks MarkRH. You can find his solution in the link below which I will copy here. It worked great, and allowed me to prove to the technical support at GoDaddy that I did not have access to that file.
To find out where the PHP.INI file is currently located, create a info.php file with the following code:
phpinfo(); ?>
Place the file in the same directory as your WordPress files.
Then, in your browser, go to http://<whatever>/info.php
It will then spew out the PHP configuration and variables. Look for Loaded Configuration File near the top to see where the PHP.INI file is located that it is using.
Depending on the webhost, you can put your own copy of PHP.INI into the same directory as your WordPress files and it will use that copy instead.
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